How do you know when something is too far gone? When the plant is truly dead? The phrase “stop watering dead plants” has stayed with me for years, not because it’s easy to follow, but because I’ve never been good at letting go. I hold on, even when the signs are clear. I’ve convinced myself that if I just try harder, if I give more, I can fix what’s breaking.
In both my personal and professional life, I’ve learned that true growth often requires the courage to let go. I’ve come to understand that not every relationship is meant to last forever. Some teach us valuable lessons and then fade away, making room for new opportunities and connections.
For a long time, I struggled with the idea of letting go. I held on to relationships and commitments that no longer served me, believing that if I just tried harder, things would improve. I stayed in situations where the weight of maintaining them drained my energy. Over time, I realized that holding on to things that no longer fit whether in friendships or projects was hindering my growth.
This shift in mindset began in high school when I experienced a friendship that slowly unraveled. Despite trying to keep it alive, the bond eventually faded, teaching me the importance of recognizing when something is no longer productive. It wasn’t easy to walk away, but I knew it was necessary for my own well-being and progress. Through this experience, I began to prioritize the relationships and projects that brought me energy, fulfillment, and mutual support. In doing so, I learned to protect my time and energy critical resources in both my personal and professional life. I now recognize that letting go isn’t giving up; it’s an act of self-respect and a strategic decision to make room for new opportunities.
This mindset has shaped how I approach challenges and opportunities in my career. I am learning to discern when to adapt, when to invest my energy, and when to step back. By doing so, I’ve cultivated a professional environment where I’m focused on meaningful connections, productivity, and continuous growth. I now surround myself with individuals who support, challenge, and inspire me, creating a foundation for mutual success. This approach has empowered me to navigate change with resilience and maintain a positive outlook, knowing that each step forward is a chance to embrace new possibilities.
